Dec 25, 2008

Baby family education ten is unsuitable

1, does things in others' stead: All from getting out of bed in the morning to going to bed in the evening front finish laying on some parents for the child. This educates way to be able to only form the baby dependence to parents , hinder a baby from standing on one's own feet development of nature. Parents responds to the mental consciousness that self does from the thing beginning to train a baby self right away after baby 1-year-old , lets a baby do the thing doing everything in one's power. 2, no appropriate being satisfied with: 1 baby till 2-year-old already is able to use a few to threaten parents satisfies his call for coming the means , requires that the baby only is capable to do my once to achieve self purpose to come to get too worse behavior if the way that parents adopt to compromise now satisfies a baby's. Therefore starting from at this time, parents will decline a baby determinedly an unreasonable demand. The interference is very many 3: Need to let a baby go to act as self thinking of the thing composing, to cultivate up baby's stand on one's own feet. Intervene the repugnance may make a baby come into being to parents very much, also may make a baby form the weak character of Confucian. 4, does not understand a baby: 1 baby till 2-year-old, can not express self idea sometimes or can not express self idea clearly. If parents is able to understand a baby, meeting promote development of baby language, intimate room relation also beneficial to blood son. On the contrary, the baby will be discontented with parents creation. 5, equivocal language: 1 baby till 2-year-old, comprehension and judgment are not strong , that parents wants to give a baby explicit directions, otherwise, the baby with clear , blunt language may be at a loss as to what to do therefore. 6, bad model: 1 baby till 2-year-old is easy to copy , parents is bad if habit saying dirty language. Watching TV as well as eating wait , effect having a silent transforming influence of to the baby, parents needs to pay attention to reinforcing oneself accomplishment therefore , correct bad habit. 7, educates an inconformity: The education to the baby disaccords about between generation or parents , one side criticizes , another one side is partial to, effect that can counterbalance education , respecting and trust also being able to reduce a baby to parents. 8, parents's feeling at ease is long-winded: Parents constantly repeats while the baby makes a mistake, scolding sb. by enumerating his wrong-doings endlessly, self-respect that can hurt baby. 9, is out of control: Think that the baby makes a mistake when getting it over or getting into trouble, that parents is furious may make a baby learn to use same way to treat a companion. 10, the physical punishment queen reneges on promise: This educates way baby that can use 1 ~ 2-year-old to confuse right and wrong , the behavior to parents feels perplexed.

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